The greatest joy

I was so busy last weekend, attending party of my friends’ children party and wedding. I thought I was so busy on that time, running from one party to the other. It was a lot of fun even how it made me tired. We all had a blast. I have tons of photos to share yet I haven’t uploaded them. It makes me lazy thinking of uploading it in different files. There will be a day that I would focus only on that matter. I love to post them also at Friendster so my friends and family can see it through. Knowing how is my daily life here in USA with my husband and what are those fun-filled that me and friends have been doing. I was glad that hubby was there for me to watch Nicole over while I was attending parties. He is such a great guy I could ever have. I love you Baby!

My daughter keeps calling me to sit on her chair besides her cause she is learning on the Starfall. About “word rhyming” and some other things to be clicked on the webpage. I am mad to myself if I get annoyed with her calls for help esecially when I also do something on the computer. Bad Me! Despite of that, I strongly opposed to myself to stop what I am doing and follow what your child’s desire first beforehand because it is her own good. She is a little child and needs to learn something new every day. Just like when I was small. Looking back that my mom can’t afford to help me learning because she is lack of education yet she is smart in doing mathematics I mean by counting money. Back then she doesn’t know so much in english, due to their mother who are also lack of education. I am college level student mom and my daughter should learn from a basic to major things, so she will not also questioning me when she grows up. I believe learning comes from home. Parents should give time to their kids, spending or coloring, reading and writing on books. Honestly, going back to the stage is really boring for me as a mom cause I feel I am starting all over again and those what in the books are just basic to me. But having a child is you really have to do what is right for them to know. Spend time as much as you could cause this is for both own good.

On the other hand, I am struggling to let Nicole make poop in the toilet. Hubby and I already bought her a toilet seat so she will use it for good, but then she is trying to hold back making into the toilet but rather do it in her diaper. I figure it out that there will be no more pull ups or diapers at home, so when her poop’s ready to come out, she will beg me but since I couldn’t give any, she has to run to the bathroom and poop in the toilet. I don’t care anymore of what she feels. What I am doing this time is for her own good. Sometimes I am very kind, soft-hearted for giving her ways. She should start learning it. I have a little regrets because this was started when we went to the Philippines for vacation and there she used diaper to make poop. Now, she could hardly make on the toilet. She is back to the starting line again for potty training, although she really wee on the toilet alreayd but not the poop.

Today I was so busy cleaning up our bedroom. When you have a toddler you can’t expect your room is clean for two days after vacuuming because they just love to make a mess, playing here and there. I was very tired after that. I would have liked to ask a massage from hubby but I didn’t force him to do so because I understand he is also tired from his business trip in California. He is now sleeping while also snoring LOL! It is funny how Nicole sleep on her own bed. She understand her daddy is back and she should sleep away from us. I must say she is really very smart girl. Even she is naughty but she has a big brain to understand things easily. It is past midnight, I should go to bed real soon. I just love to mumble tonight since it has been so long I did something on this blog. I feel sorry for this. From now on I will keep coming back for more updates.